Heart Awakenings and Connection

Debbie DuBoisAwakening, Runner/Chaser, Surrender16 Comments

I am called to share a new download of information today with the twin flame community. Actually, this message is specifically for those people who have been experiencing heart awakening and ended up in the online twin flame community looking for explanations.

Again, I will reiterate what I have personally been shown by Source to be true: There are a specific number of twin souls on the planet at this time who have come to bring the pure love vibrations back during this particular time/space and to support the vibrational shift that IS taking place already. These are the graduate one-soul, two-body beings who have incarnated on the planet specifically for the purpose of clearing familial karmic lines for large numbers of humans, as well as uniting in loving service in order to set new patterns of perfection for love here on Earth.

In addition, I have been shown how that “twin soul” phenomenon is happening purposefully and simultaneously with another wide-spread phenomenon, which has become entangled it. That phenomenon could be called “heart awakenings” or even “kundalini awakening.” Mel Brand has talked about these for a while now. These catalytic experiences are happening with twin souls for sure, but they are also happening to lots of people who are not twin souls. And, they are happening at an exceedingly increasing rate. This entanglement with the “twin soul” experience continues to happen because people are searching for explanations and find themselves stumbling upon twin flame communities.

Like a twin soul connection, heart openings or awakenings are accompanied by tremendous energy surges–even sexual surges–which make one vibrate. The body and heart goes wild with surging vibrations when one meets this catalyst, whether or not the person is their twin soul.

Something new was revealed to me today that I feels is important to address at this time. There are quite a few people in the online communities who have already had heart openings. Those people are actually realizing that they might not have experienced  “twin soul” connection at all, but begin the fast path of transformation towards Love of Self and becoming more and more their authentic Higher Being incarnate. And as that happens people are finding new connections with people they are drawn to.

The thing I want to address is something I’ve started to observe. Because people are not experiencing the kinds of intense heart awakening symptoms they had with their catalyst, they are sometimes afraid that they are not in the right connection because they do not experience the same heart bursting sensations. All the other elements may be there, but because the relationship/encounter does not imitate their original catalytic experience, they may want to run away from it.

Please be advised of something I received from Source today. If you have already experienced that heart opening or awakening with someone, your heart is OPEN. Therefore you will not experience that again with anyone else in the same way. Nor does it mean you will experience it with the original catalyst again should you happen to reunite with them. Probably need to start getting used to the fact that your heart is open and expanding now if you have started your journey back to yourself! It may try to close back up in the course of letting go of the obstacles that have kept you from loving openly, but it will not close back up entirely. And you will not experience another heart opening or awakening just like it. It is OPEN NOW! I think that is really really good news don’t you?

Ok what happens if you have already had your heart opening but meet someone who is just having their “heart awakening”; Even though you feel the soul connection, you may not feel the heart opening the way the other person does. That is because that person has NOT had their heart awakening yet. That person will experience much more intensity than you. You may feel uncomfortable that they are feeling more intensely about you then you are about them. Therefore, you may possible question why am I not experiencing the level of connection? And you could very possible doubt it’s a potential sacred connection even if it is really good connection. Just be aware that sacred unions need not be based on the euphoric rush of a heart opening. They are based on so many things you cannot know until you move into new realms of multi-dimensional experience with someone who is your vibration. And that takes letting this connection unfold in each moment of NOW in the heart center.

If you are the person who is having your heart awakening experience and the person you had it with has already experienced a heart awakening, you could be left trying to figure out why such a wonderful feeling is misunderstood by other person who claims that they are heart-awakened. They might draw back or seemingly run away from you. Or even head backward to chase their catalyst again. What do you do?  The temptation is to continue to look for another person who will give you that rush you experienced during your heart awakening. My point here is stop looking for the rush. Your heart is OPEN and the objective changes now to stay in the heart and out of the mind. It is all about growing consciousness and learning to love self. Once you are well on that path, you can expect you will come into contact with others who are on that path for company.

You may even have those heart awakening type vibrations with other people. You can definitely find them again with another person. But it has always been about heart awakening and remaining in the heart center and that is why it all is happening. Once you’ve had a heart opening, it’s up to you to remain in the open heart center. And stay there in the heart awareness and out of the mind. That is what raises your own vibration and takes you past 5D. The work is about staying out of the mind. The work is about letting go of all the programs that keep you trapped in your beliefs which are of the mind. It never really was about a “relationship.” The step-by-step process after you reach that final step where you are always living in love and always living in heart and never in ego mind is when you are truly in union with self. Then sacred union will all happen naturally and be as fulfilling as your love for your Self—whether twin soul or not. Will it matter when you are living from Joy? I think not!

16 Comments on “Heart Awakenings and Connection”

    1. Only you will know this. This is a great article but never let anyone tell u that it isnt. I met this girl that i had a dream of 3 months before i ohysically met her. I dabbed into a osychic reading and was told she was just a karmic relationship. It didnt resonate with me. I knew we had a deeper connection. Then ive had a few more readings with someone else and didnt mention twin soul, and all of them said her and i are twins. That resonated with me more. Then my brother from the other side came forward to me and said she was my twin. But. My guides wanted me to get the answers from my heart and not be trained to listen soley on what others say. Even if he isnt your twin, hes something to you because you feel it. He might be your twin. You will know it. Use your heart. Reach out to him and get to know him. Dont worry about focusing on if.

      1. I agree Kevin…Only you can know in your heart if there is a twin. I was only saying that not everyone has a twin in this incarnation…Some people don’t even believe there ARE twins…but these people who we are connected to like this are so very very important to us…never ever underestimate that.

  1. Debra. I did not say in my article that you may or may not have a twin. Only you can know if you do. Is there someone in particular you have met? Or are you thinking about someone will come along that will be your twin? Let’s just say this. There are very few twin souls on the planet. The twin soul is a one-soul being born in two bodies. They are only here for a mission to raise the vibration of the planet. It’s like your soul splitting into two and incarnating in two separate places on the planet to bring light. The job of a twin soul is extremely stressful and is no picnic. I dare say, if you have not trained for a great deal of time to do the mission, you really might not be a twin. And that is NOT a bad thing. The point of all of this is we are all having heart awakenings to our true authentic beings. And in those true authentic beings we will balance our feminine and masculine energies and be filled with so much self-love that we are whole. Then we can join with other whole beings and truly experience the kind of love that we all really imagine if that is what we choose. For while we are trying to get something outside of ourselves to fill us up, we cannot know our greatness. We cannot know who we are. I didn’t say you don’t have a twin. I am merely saying this is all about heart awakenings. Twin or not, we are in for a great shift in consciousness on our planet that will bring us all much joy, greater abundance and lots of loving heart connections. Do not let your hopes be let down by that news. Become all you can be! You are All that Is sweetie! Don’t look outside yourself to become that. I hope this helps a bit.

  2. Thanks Debbi for your response, yesterday was a very emotional day for me, so I was taking everything to heart. I have this knowing inside of who my twin flame is. Someone I used to talk with 17 years ago. I was actually some what the runner and the chaser. This person was extremely special to me. We never met, but I recently found him on Facebook and can’t dodge this knowing and feeling.

    1. Debra I would in no way say that he is not a twin. Twins are rare but that does not mean that you are not one. But I can say this. We are all essentially ONE BEING. Truly. The special bond and connection you have with someone is because you share a resonance with them and it can be the most beautiful and special thing in the world even if you are not a one-soul being. This has been a very emotional week for all people even me. So know that you are not alone. Venus retrograde is a very very challenging period in time so allow yourself to be where you are at. If you would like to talk with me further about your situation, let me know. I have 1/2 hours sessions even that can give you the specific attention your situation requires. I have been able to bring a lot of information to people that makes their path much smoother. I have the ability to connect with your higher self and give you information your soul wants you to know about your situation to grow in consciousness…just let me know if you feel called to get assistance. People always know if this is right for them or not <3 Much love!!

  3. Ok I met this guy where we have a magnectic eye contact experience. When ever I USED to look in his eyes I felt such magnectic attraction for him and all the geart awakening symptoms. He activated my heart charka and I know his eyes from some where. But as soon as he gets close up Im not attracted to him. Im confused. He still has it for me because I can tell by the way he looks at me. But its like the spark gone for me.
    Im currently fighting well learning that I have an attachment to my heart, which I have recently found out that its been with me since birth and was sent to me to protect me from lower entities as I also found out that I am a very gifted empath, reason why it was sent to me in the first place and now for some reason it wont go. Iv been to hell and back so to speak since my heart awakening and its that attachment that keeps me going tound in circles.
    Has any body else had this? I dont know why im not attracted to my heart catalyst no more, im not sure if its the attachment or if im blocking it as I do feel like im not good enough.
    Any advice would help?

    1. Max, you will find that the heart awakening is all about getting you on the path to wholeness. To open your heart so that you can find yourself in there…Any sacred partnership you have will come from getting to know your own wholeness. My advice would be focus less on those people who bring heart awakening and more on what you can do to remove blocks you have built up to love because invariably until you do that, you will not have the kind of attraction for another person for long term.

      1. Thank you for your advice. Iv been trying to do what you said. Iv changed alot since the awakening. My thoughts towards everything has changed. I do find it hard to meditate. Practice makes perfect I guess.
        What should I do about him? He keeps coming after me and I know he felt what I felt by his actions and know he feels the same way about me, by his actions.
        Iv tried approaching him or waiting for the right time but I end up treating him like crap. I dont mean to but it just happens. And I know hes wanted to ask me but backs out. Like I sense what hes bout to do or say.
        But as I try and walk away im hurting him. I can sense it sometimes feel it. But Im a little stuck on what to do with him.

        1. Max, maybe you should try just letting go of the situation and letting things kind of unfold. Meditation is different for all people. I find being in nature makes me feel like I’m in meditation even if I’m not meditating. As for what to do about him. Sounds like you both have a lot of blocks around loving. Both seem unable at this time to approach each other openly. the Universe will deliver teaching lessons to you until you are ready. YOu have to learn to remove the blocks that you have built around you to love before you do anything else. This takes focus. If you feel you would benefit from a session, please feel free to check out my services. They are very reasonable.

          1. I would love some help. Iv learned my mind keeps me going in circles and started reading The Power of Now. Only because I know my mind is making me feel crazy so im just trying to “lose my mind” to get my own clarity. Yes iv started bush walking, something iv always loved but just got back into it. I just thought I had to get into meditation state. Thats probably why I cant do it because I feel forced to do it. I should just let it happen naturally. Omg debbie why didnt I find you ages ago? It would if saved me alot of running round in circles and you explain the whole process alot better than mel. I have alot of respect for mel, hes helped alot too but sometimes I dont understand and walk away confused. He helped with my dreams, he should do a dream video because once I started observing my dreams it became clear on what needs to be done. And he clarified that.
            Ok debbie I cant seem to find where your services are. Are you able to send me a link?

  4. Follow your heart! Only your soul knows! Don’t be discouraged by anyone, here or anywhere! We don’t decide for anyone else, no matter what we think we know, expert or not!

  5. Little late to the conversation but, I am going thru this exact thing right now with what I’m sure is my twin. I am the one going thru the awakening tho, I feel we had a catalyst moment as well but now she I feel is just trying to leave. It’s a very sad feeling. I feel like I have a black cloud covering my meditative and empathic abilities. Which sucks because I know meditation would help. I’m just at a loss at what or how to do what… If that makes sense.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.