Wow Tam! I am so sorry that I did not reply to your comment. For some reason, i did not see it and I really try to respond to all comments as I can! I am so glad you found my blog. I hope you subscribed so you can get my newest blogs. I just published one on co-dependence that exists in the twin flame dynamic that might be of interest. I found the information that came through very helpful in my situation. We think sometimes that we are ‘above all that’ in the twin flame connection. Not so. And it seems that it a lesson we are learning right now in various ways! Thank you so much for taking time to comment here. Much love to you!

I was reminding myself earlier on how much I admired the resilience and stamina of my TF and how he described himself as a donkey when I asked jokingly what animal he identifies with. The answer shocked me as I find donkeys stupid. But then he said no matter how hard or what happens he never stops going forward. I then replied a donkey to me carries incredible weight and is the only animal that can climb mountains with so much weight on his shoulders!

This conversation was short but really stirred my compassion…. but then we argued a few days after for the last time just before I reveal to him about our twin flame nature in a very bold way.

This was the moment I hit my inner walls. We knew we had an extraterrestrial connection and a love beyond all the limits we are facing and discussed it before. We knew it was surreal and we shared sacred moments beyond words. But Up to that point I respected his slow pace and stubbornness to keep going and ignore the red flagged signs most of the time.
The donkey metaphor stirred me so deeply, I felt the truth can maybe help him with his load.

Lately he had a been avoiding me because the load is keeping him busy. My ego is mine as I think Know better how to be free and light in my heart. Although I share his suffering I failed to share my strength.

Thank you for this sentence I will carry in my heart through this phase:
He is definitely one of those :
powerful warriors that they took on some of the most incredibly ingrained programming for the patriarchal masculine that the planet has to offer in order to break them.

May you be blessed with more compassion for your TF. I kept sensibg I can do more, now I know how. ???