The process teaches us how to remove codependency. You will get all you need to do it but you have to accept and surrender to that process and remember that everything is here to teach you. We do make things incredibly complicated by trying not to rock the other person’s boat. But in doing that, we also are always walking on eggshells. I’d say the key is to go searching in your heart for what your truth is, and find out what it is about your truth YOU are rejecting or feel is wrong. You are fearing that your twin will not accept how you feel or that it will hurt him, but honestly, they are just a reflection of us. So as long as you hold any questions about your own belief systems, they will manifest through your twin. Once you feel 100% comfortable with your own beliefs, you may be tested from time to time, but this kind of back and forth will not happen. I hope that helps <3

So it could be my own fault if we’re having this problem. But maybe it’s also ok to be honest with each other where we’re both at, at the moment. ❤

You know the absense of crying days on end or even hours on end is the real sign of progress. But now we work at deeper levels to remove all the slight nuances of co-dependency. Sounds like you have come a LONG way!! Bravo. That is what these tests show us…Our progress. That is why we have tests at all! Sending lots of love. Keep going… (of course!)

I completely understand!! The co-dependency is something I never would have suspected in myself. I really thought I’d licked it too! Actually we are probably closer than we realize but the Universe must test us…WE TEST OURSELVES!! To be sure we are truly in our own strength. We MUST be for union of any kind.

I am so very glad that my work has helped you in your journey! I myself completely know how hard this journey can be…but keep on keeping on <3 🙂

However, as there’s a silver lining to every cloud, I did communicate my texts with as much love as I could. And also mentioned that my feelings towards my partner hadn’t changed due to the incident, but also that I would stop them from leaving if they saw that as the best action. And, as a pattern that I have noticed from the very beginning, they chose the flight path in the choice between fight or flight. But this time, there was a goodbye (which I hadn’t received many times in the past). I see that as growth, however slow it might be, change is happening. And I also noticed a change in myself, I wasn’t crying for days or getting upset afterward, I simply kept my head high with a belief in my knowing that when it’s meant to be lessons will come to us and the universe will conspire as it always has to put us in each other’s path.