The article was about the changing of my group name from something twin flames—I honestly cannot remember the old name—to Heart Connections and Sacred Union. Away from twin flame labels. What is interesting is that I am going change the group name again to brand it again with the term that has resonated most with me and is the name of my website and Facebook page: True Sacred Union. So, this article will be posted in my newly named group True Sacred Union.

The reason why this is all so significant to me at this time is that I feel I have in some ways come full circle with this whole path and journey. And, in doing that I am almost finished creating a social support platform purely for the purpose of supporting those who wish to exodus out of the trap that the twin flame land can become. I myself became ensnared with the fantasy of twin flames. Not that there is no such dynamic. I will be the first to state it exists and is real within the matrix of experience. And, it serves great purpose. But what I have discovered is it is a stepping stone to an even greater love. One that promises much more security and oneness than any one person can bring to you. And it is the ascension process which allows you to come into sacred union with yourself first and then another.

I have been calling this connection on the larger scale, catalytic heart awakenings. And that is because it is not limited to twin flames (which are defined in the matrix belief system as being two bodies, one soul). And, as a side not. Please hear me. I totally accept that concept as POSSIBLE. I just cannot see why it would NOT be possible. After all, do we not separate from Source in a myriad of ways and come into “stepped down energies” and individuate to meet ourselves in others? Why not further separate a strand of energies into two charged polarities, feminine and masculine? And, why NOT use it as another classroom of experience to grow from? To say it is NOT possible is to limit one’s knowledge. To deny that is to deny that ALL is possible. But to say that this experience is real in the higher realms of experience is not logical. For we are all from the ONE of All That Is and we cannot be separated in reality.

So, to address the exodus out of twin flame land, there is a paradox here. One who understand that the belief systems can trap people and has overcome them must actually use the word “twin flame” to get the attention of those who are “stuck.” And, that is truly what I use the word for now. It is not that I do not respect the connection. To the contrary! I cannot express how actually strong those people are who have come in with that planned connection. It is one of the fastest path to ascension for breaking old patterns, beliefs and thoughts systems. And, to do that within oneself first will automatically translate into system wide changes. But to share my understanding with “twins” only, is not why I came. I came to help ALL who can hear to make the transition from the old relationship templates to the new “untemplated” and unchartered territories of connection here on the planet. And, to help people become ONE within themselves.

A catalytic heart awakening is a term that to me perfectly describes what is taking place system wide. This has nothing to do with twin flames, except that they “went first” in many cases. And, there is no limitations on the new sacred partnerships. They are defined by the individuals involved. And they are what will be emerging. What IS emerging. But at the “time” of this writing it has not yet taken hold on the planet system wide. We are in the process of it. It is coming and it is coming fast.

My heart’s purpose has ALWAYS been to get to a place where I can experience sacred partnership at the highest levels possible. I knew it from the day I woke up to the existence of “boys” in my world. Having come full circle on this journey and standing in my own wholeness, I now understand the entire journey to this point. And I know why I had to experience it. It didn’t make it easier to experience. But it does at least make sense to me now! And my whole purpose in this portion of my life is to help others get to the other side. Because this is where the beauty really begins!

On a side note, my sweet friend, John, and I talked this morning about the word FUSION this morning. And, once we come into our complete wholeness of sacred union in self and with another, there can be fusion. The merging of energies to know ourselves as ONE together. But never can that exist with co-dependency. And our planet was seeded with co-dependency that MUST go. It is from co-dependency or dependency that all pain is born. And it is this reason people get stuck in twin flame land. Their NEED for another person to help them experience their wholeness. And, THAT is what needs to shift.

So, the work still must be done for all of us. To move away from labels. What I love about catalytic heart awakening is it’s a description for what is happening and NOT a noun. It is the process of moving forward in a journey that leads one back to Self at the highest levels and it can easily be shifted to the next descriptive word as the whole entire experience for the collective shifts into even higher gear.

I also have been calling the connection we have to specific people “catalytic heart connections” because again it is more of an appropriate description without all the old stories and fairytales associated with it. When I think of the term “twin flames” I think of burning off stuff but most people have been programmed for a whole set of beliefs. You can read them in people’s “signs of twin flames.” It’s not that those signs don’t exist, but the problem is we attach to the definitions by awareness and start creating them and don’t bust out of the limitations of the definition. And, we focus on those definitions as the justification for why we are uncomfortable with our own selves in connection. Instead of learning how to overcome our discomfort.

The good news is this. The catalytic heart awakenings and connection cannot help but eventually lead you in the right direction as we discover that the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change. And we are forced to change! We cannot help it. Our soul will push us until we do. But how long do we wallow in the land of pain and misery? That is up to us. And, fortunately some of us came here to go first so we could help awaken others.

My goal is to be there for people who know they WANT to change but are unsure HOW to change it. Changing is simple, but sometimes it isn’t easy because we make it difficult. We humans are notorious for making things difficult for ourselves. I am dedicated to assisting people who honestly want to shift. It’s fast and easy and doesn’t have to be difficult. But we must become UNSTUCK. And we must at some point be willing to exodus OUT of twin flame land. We need not leave others socially behind to do it. We don’t need to leave our groups on Facebook, but we can change the purpose of our connections. But, we have to be willing to face ourselves in the mirror and then be better able to join others in a new place!

So much more coming! I have so much in the works right now that I cannot wait to share. But for now, I will leave it at this. We are moving quickly through this transition to the new love relationships. And it starts with US. I am so encouraged because so many people realize this. Let’s help those that are STUCK understand as best we can that the path is about uncovering our blocks to love.

And please, I ask those of you who believe you are really twin flames, to respect all people’s path. I implore everyone to respect those who are quite apparently NOT two souls in one body based on your own personal experience. They may not have the same connection you’ve experienced and may be looking for love outside themselves. But most likely so were YOU. It’s the same path. I ask everyone to HELP THEM when you can. Not by belittle their experiences or telling them “you don’t want to go there!” It’s understandable. You really don’t want them to get stuck. SO, HELP THEM not get stuck!

Extend your knowledge and understanding to them. Show them the way. They are on the same path. They are moving towards their highest being just as you are. There is no US and them. There is only ALL. Together we can make this transition quickly and hopefully less painfully and move into greater creative expression TOGETHER! In TRUE SACRED UNION.

Much love always!
~Debbs

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For anyone who has been on the twin flame journey for any length of time, those feeling are completely understandable and should not even be referred to as “getting stuck.” If you are genuinely a twin flame / twin soul, it is absolute fact that there truly is no getting away from the person. They are YOU. So how can you get away from them? The biggest question for most at that point is this: “Is this person really my twin?” That is because this person being in your life can drive you so crazy that you want to run away and hide! A very prevalent condition that many on the twin path are dealing with right now.

Only you can answer that question, “Is this my twin?” You will have to go into your knowing. No one can really do that for you. However, if you have gone into your knowing and found that the answer is probably “yes,” it may be time to ask yourself, “What is making me feel that way?”

The first thing you should do is to be completely honest with yourself. Have been focusing too much on the other person? Think about it. Are you over-focusing on what they are doing? Are you constantly thinking about how they are behaving or measuring the connection at every turn? Are you focusing on their journey and the shifts you believe they need to make rather than your own?  If the answer to any of those questions is ”Yes” then THAT is what makes you feel the way you do in the first place.

It is true with anything in life. If we focus on something outside of ourselves and make it very important to us, when things do not go the way we WANT them to, we get unhappy. So is it any wonder if you are focusing on the other person that you become unhappy when they are not following the “game plan”? Too often in this journey, we focus on our interactions with them, how they make us feel, what their life is about and what they are doing.

Throughout the groups, there seem to be lot of people focusing on questions like, “How should I know when it is time to reach out to my twin,” and “what’s it going to be like to have sex with my twin after a couple of months of dating.” This is all OUTER focus.

I don’t know how many times this needs to be said. If there is truly a twin soul connection or a destined connection, it cannot be broken so STOP focusing on it. Focus elsewhere. All the time. Only focus on that person when they come into your moment of NOW. Truth is, you are fated to spend time with that person or you are not. Let them go. This is the true meaning of faith. You have to stop trying to control the situation. Focus on your own self and meeting your own needs. You will never, and I repeat never, come into full divine union of any kind until you are standing in your full wholeness.

When you have gone through the process of letting go of all the obstacles that stand in your way of showing up as your unique authentic self, you are whole. This means you are able to stand in your own power and your own truth. This means you can enjoy the connection with the other person as they come into and out of your moment of NOW in complete peace and joy. You can allow that person to be their complete selves in any given moment.

Until you can say you are honestly there, you will NOT be with your twin or any other sacred partner in the type of union you seek. It simply is not possible. Now that does not mean, of course, that you cannot have 3D relationships with others—or even your twin for that matter. Just expect those relationships to offer you up all kinds of triggers as homework assignments for release! That is often a big part of the process. Unless you make resolving those triggers and letting go of old belief patterns your highest intention, you will not be coming into sacred union anytime soon. That is reality. Coming into wholeness is a process.

One of the things that Source has been advising strongly for most on the twin soul / twin flame journey is to really focus on uncovering what you are here to do. What skills, talents and abilities did you come here with? What do you do differently than everyone else? If you know what you love to do, start doing it! If you love to write, write. If you love to draw, draw. If you love to paint, paint. Focus on what you love to do and that which brings you your highest excitement. THAT is how you focus on YOU. Then it will not matter to you WHO is your twin, or if you have one!

In summary, when you find yourself frustrated with your situation, questioning your sanity or just feeling stressed out about your twin flame journey, please try to remember to focus on yourself more. Focus on your highest excitement in any given moment, even if that moment is time you do have with your twin. That is probably the single most important message you can receive at this time. You cannot break the bond you have with that person if he or she is your twin. What you can do, is immediately turn your attention to something YOU want to do right now that has nothing to do with your twin. That has everything to do with YOU and your life RIGHT HERE and RIGHT NOW.

~Written with Love and Light by Debbie DuBois

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