I am so very inspired to be writing this today. In the moment of NOW, I knew it was time to “unpack” the modules of information that I have downloaded over the past two weeks. A couple nights ago, Keleena Malnar and I connected for several hours and shared a Source download session from Higher Guidance. The guidance she received from Source was not influenced much at all by existing twin flame writings because she does not ascribe to twin flame concepts, nor has she been exposed to information coming from people such as Mel Brand or others. She watches no videos on twin flames, but received her own download of information when she began asking why reading the information was making her nauseous. And, it was the answers in her download that made me know it was time for me write what I know. For I have been getting this information as well and she confirmed everything that I was getting. Hence we both decided to write some information.
And, yesterday I delved into some serious soul work as I identified and released things–yes more “stuff”–that stood between me and my highest ability to connect with Higher Self and All That Is. You see yesterday, the many integrations I made as I “unpacked” this knowledge and re-examined what I already know, liberated me to an even greater degree than I have known to this point. For each and every time we release what we’ve held onto, both that which we perceive as good and bad, we become more open to new vista of experience and understanding. And the more UNSTUCK we become.
This leads me to the topic for this article. And that is on the souls who are getting “stuck” in the illusion of “twin flames.” It is happening, although I can honestly say most vocal ones in my “circle” are moving forward and progressing nicely on their soul’s progression. They are letting go of their programs and beliefs one at a time, becoming clearer and clearer. And doing the work! Those who are stuck will not resonate with this article at all and find a strong desire to “move on” from my group. You will know if you are “stuck” or not. Only you can ask yourself if this is YOU. If you are stuck, I encourage you to stay!
Now to address the subject of those who are somewhat or very STUCK in the “twin flame” promise, this is what I’ve been shown has happened. “Unseen forces” have usurped and marketed “twin flame” concepts for their own gain–mixing truth and fiction–which does not actually help someone, but traps them. And, there is method to madness. These forces “feed” off the misery and negativity of those who are unhappy and always longing for what they cannot have. They wish to keep humankind unhappy and working and too busy to really awaken to Who They Are because of what will happen when they awaken. So why not waylay as many awakening beings as possible–those who are having their first real glimpse of the ecstasy that exists on the higher realms–and trap them by marketing within the constructs of templates that have already set in place to keep them there?
Except guess what? We are receiving the calls to awaken from within! Yay! This is amazing news. What was once unthinkable is becoming possible. Humanity has a strong say over what it experiences here in the Matrix by its willingness to LET GO OF PROGRAMS that no longer suit an awakening being, freeing all to soar to new heights of experience. And as humankind awakens into its full awareness of its Source connection and figures out Who It Is, there will be no more control. No more lies. No more deceit. Only LOVE. Only Truth. Only Reality. Now you understand why controllers would not wish this to happen.
So. What is the truth as it has been revealed to me THUS FAR?
TWIN RAYS. There appear to be true teachings within the Matrix which have been part of man’s earthly knowledge for long periods of time on twin flames, twin rays, twin souls, etc. I do personally resonate with the existence of graduate one soul beings in two bodies who can consciously experience a multi-dimensional existence. This was show to Keleena as “twin rays of light.” They have come to Earth during this time/space to assist in Earth “apparent” return to higher dimension by being here on the planet at this time to raise the vibrations and bring new ways of expressing love. These are not the people I am talking about–they are not stuck.
If you are a graduate soul, you are in union (if you really think about it) in one form or another, but typically not by the definitions of this planet’s relationship templates. In fact you are anything but! But you now know who you are. You are in MUTUALLY-acknowledged higher connections with a conscious understanding of what your assignment is, even if you are still “working out the details”. And you resonate with the knowledge that when you return from whence you came, you will join your collective Soul energy and no longer even consider what graduate soul or twin souls or twin rays are, for those “constructs” do not exist in the higher realms.
TWIN FLAMES. Also true…there do appear to be souls who are having heart center and kundalini awakenings NOW, often through connecting with someone –or “a few someones”–who act(s) as a catalyst. Searching for information to explain the intense experience, they find information on “twin flames” and then have the opportunity to begin a path to Self-Awakening and Transformation–IF they connect with the right information or have good higher guidance. This “twin flame” construct appears to be for the purpose of quick spiritual awakenings. What better way to catalyze quick spiritual change then to make a connection with another person, whereby he/she becomes extremely motivated to “change and grow” for the promise of “coming into union.” This path if full experienced ultimately leads one to the realization that YOU were who you were looking for the whole time.
These twin flame construct seems to include two (or more people at diff times) who agree to come in during this time/space and play roles of cataylst for each other. There is typically a very dynamic connection between them—sometimes a HUGE push/pull dynamic–that has a significant impact on spiritual growth IF they don’t get STUCK by focusing OUTSIDE themselves on the other person. They will inevitably get stuck if they do not do the work they came to do on themselves. That work is simply LETTING GO of old beliefs and templates.
Whether meeting young in life and reconnecting periodically throughout life, or meeting later in life and realizing a huge MUTUAL connection, this dynamic sparks all kinds of shift in both people. This connection typically creates unbelievable explosions of heart and, possibly even kundalini, awakenings. There may be only one “catalyst” or there may be several (sure explains the near twin dilemma). They may OR MAY NOT have soul contracts to come together in this lifetime. I like to think of it as if they can come into balance, they have a great chance of enjoying what is being thought of as Reunion or Union. Simply because they have come into alignment with who they are and they resonate together. Keleena brought through a great way to describe them. Please note that Keleena did NOT SEE Matt Kahn’s video on Soul Contracts, Soul Mates and Twin Flames. She was shown that the “flames” help one another burn off (or let go of) karma. It might not even be Karma between them. They help each other to come into balance if LETTING GO work is done.
“LOST” LOVERS. Lastly there is one more truth as I see it. The “marketers” of the twin flame inadvertently draw to them people who wish to experience what they have been sold by Disney as the perfect solution to what is missing in their lives–their other halves. Or, the ONE who completes them. And these people may not have has a catalytic experience. That dynamic may not even be present in their life plan at all. Some people will join happily with soul mates or find karmic partners with whom they must work their stuff out with. But, they may begin to follow this information because they are longing for the perfect partner who will “fill their cup.” They latch onto the multitude of regurgitated articles and literally become brainwashed. In fact the brainwashing can happen to the twin flames as well. I urge those who have rooms for posting twin flame information, to please stop the repetitive bombardment of information. The potential for people reading and rereading this stuff leads to more and more stuck people instead of happy people living their lives. Happy people living their lives does raise the vibrations of the planet.
Keleena was shown that so much information is being ingested and none of it is really DIGESTED. Digesting would mean that you literally sort out that which resonates and get rid of the rest. I think that brilliantly describes the problem. Anything we are fixed on or believe so strongly gets us STUCK. We are here to let go of beliefs and become FREE.
So what is the answer to all of this? Why am I bringing this information up at this time? I am hoping to get people to ask themselves “Who Am I? Why am I here in this community? Do I feel stuck? Am I doing what I came here to do? Am I doing the work (letting go) necessary to free myself from illusion? Do I know that I AM who I am looking for? Am I living for another person? Am I more concerned about what the other person is doing or not doing than what I am doing or not doing? Do I love myself? Do I observe myself? Do I let things go? Or do I hang onto stuff? Who Am I?”
The whole journey is a pathway that people have chosen walk before they came in. You chose to find your connection to Source through loving relationships. Many of you came to shatter the silly templates that no longer work for awakened beings. Are you doing that work? Are you doing what you came here to do? Or are you sitting on Facebook waiting for your life to begin? If you are on Facebook, are you using it to awaken or keep you sleeping? Also, how is this journey affecting you? You chose the path, and you can decide HOW you walk down the path.
If you have not met someone with whom you have been MUTUALLY catalyzed you may want to “move on”. There is nothing to see here for you unless you do. Truly. Do not sit and wait for the catalyst. If it is meant to happen for you it will. There are so many paths to Self. The path to SELF is just that. You can find that pursuing your calling or that which you love. Yes everyone longs for love. But the truth is we long for Self Love. You can find that Self-love in all kinds a way. Don’t get stuck sitting on Facebook regurgitating a bunch of information that doesn’t pertain to you (or most people in the twin flame dynamic either!). If you are on Facebook, find the groups that you resonate with in terms of purpose and mission.
And a final note. If you do wish to experience the higher forms of loving relationships on the planet, the key is working on YOU. That involves a lot of “letting go.” When you let go of all the things that stand in your way of loving, and allow the truth of who you are to shine through, you will automatically draw to you like vibration and find someone who resonates at the same frequency you do. That is just how it works. But you are all that you are waiting for. You will not find the kind of synergism you seek by looking OUT THERE. It is all about YOU YOU YOU. It always had been.
I am very dedicated to helping showing the way to Self-Love for those on this path. I do this because I have done the work and I know what I’m talking about. I started this room to help bring people along the same path I am traveling. I continually come to new understandings and through letting go see more and more truth. I am not there yet but I am at least beginning to live in the splendor that comes along from the awareness that I am creating my own reality. I promise to bring what I can to this group to help. This group is for EVERYONE. Not just those on a twin flame path. I just encourage everyone, no matter what, really focus on YOU YOU YOU!! I’ll do what I can to help <3 Much LOVE <3 Namaste.
Written with love by Debbie Saffer DuBois
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8 Comments on “Stuck in Twin Flame Land?”
I love this!
I believe I have found my twin flame … but only after I had discovered my life’s purpose and had been doing it for two years … I found the work I was doing made me a happier person and this is when he and i met …. there was an instant connection … I had to know more about him … we’ve been talking for a year and a half … he is “waiting. For me” ❤️
I decided I was not happy in marriage for a while and am divorcing… tf does not want to see or be intimate til divorce complete … hard for me but I respect and understand … but I wonder … do I still have work to do on me before our union ? How do I know ?
OMG you have to read my most recent article… I’m so sorry I am only seeing this post now, but you know sometimes things happen the way they are supposed to. I have been very busy in my creative expression as well (the one that pays my bills LOL) and I just did not see your comment. Thank you so much for asking a question. We all have work to do until we find ourselves in union. I believe in letting things unfold and continuing to focus on our own awakening whilst the other is doing whatever they have to do. As for him waiting… he needs to focus on himself and make some shifts that will help you as well…But that is not your concern. It is HIS path. And it is probably what is keeping you from coming to him. He needs to do his work. Because he cannot find his completion in you. He must find it within himself! I hope that helps. Again sorry for the long time in responding 😛
This is a lot of definitions attached to one principle, so it is definitely useful in helping sort out what is going on and what people are longing for, etc.
That said, I do think “twin flames” are in fact real and also, I don’t think any single living person is physically WITH them. The main reason is that for the overwhelming majority of people, the automatic default for the human mind is “partner.” Yet very little attention is actually given to the “twin” part in “twin flames”. Think biological, monozygotic twins only in spiritual form – a duplicity/doubling of one soul entity. That alone would be offputting to all those harmonious, twin flame *lovers* who think they have found their other “half”. Words and definitions do matter. So ultimately, are twin flames a realistic expectation for this life that has been actualized by some people? I would say no.
I cannot think of a single twin flame “couple” in recorded human history. Twin flame couple of WHAT? Lovers? Parent/child? Siblings? Friends? Coworkers? Also, there is no twin flame “mission” on Earth as we know it. This entire concept has been hijacked by these New Age, *enlightened* gurus trying to sell to vulnerable people this notion that twin flames are these divinely anointed (ie CHOSEN) earth missionaries tasked with spiritually enlightening the world. In reality, if a twin flame actually managed to figure out who that other half is, both would have probably had to incarnate at the same time, and this revelation would only occur under the most extraordinary circumstances (perhaps through a near death experience). In other words, it would be an ACCIDENT of such epic proportions that neither was prepared for, causing one or both to go to the ends of the earth to find the other. And the chance of any of this even happening to one specific person is about as likely as winning the lottery 3 times.
And honestly it happens. As everything you have described is absolutely true, it does happen on the planet. I know because it happened to me. But what people think this connection is for is completely out of alignment with the truth. The “mission” of the true twin flames IS to harmonize with each other which is VERY difficult to do because of the laws of projection. But it is a process that works and by living this process we learn to come into harmony with our own vibration. Whether a twin flame PAIR can actually harmonize in one lifetime is the question. But as the twin flame PAIR shift and change their programming to encounter higher and higher versions of themselves, they then can harmonize with each other. The goal is to reach that state of awakened higher source consciousness and live those vibrations. That is quite a “mission” for there not being a twinflame mission LOL. It’s simple, but it ain’t easy. Thanks so much for your amazing comment!
Thanks Debbie.
For me, the entire concept is overwhelming. And I think if people truly truly knew what they were dealing with or what this entailed, they would not be ready for it. Coming into union with a twin flame ON EARTH is fraught with hazard. First of all, two people cannot merge in physical bodies in such a way where that original double soul construct I’ll call it (sort of encased in like a yin/yang symbol or plume) can be reconstituted. That will have to wait until the afterlife.
Also, just looking at identical twins on earth, we can see the difficulties of such an existence. They are always trying to forge their own individual identities yet always glued to one another or gravitating back toward each other, almost to the point of excluding all others. Not that every twin is maladjusted, but it is an unusual phenomenon to begin with. So to ramp that up to a higher spiritual creation would almost have to mean a shedding or abandonment of all that we know and love here because the twins would need each other so badly.
Another thing too is the challenge of incarnating into physical bodies. This double/duplicate soul now has to comply with the laws of duality in 3D, and must now split into opposites. So instead of 2 identical clones walking around on earth at the same time, you have two people that are both identical and opposite dropping into completely different timelines, geographies, whatever. And they are now left with 3 challenges: 1. REMEMBERING they were a twin soul at the point of creation 2. Identifying who that other person is (assuming they are alive at the same time) and finding them 3. The “relationship”. Well, I don’t know what kind of relationship twin flames who’ve found each other are supposed to even carry on. It IS an awe inspiring phenomenon, but does not seem like something to strive for because it is so utterly difficult.
I think what people are truly looking for is a divine partnership/soulmate – one that is the apex of their very existence because it is a perfect compliment. To me, that is humanity’s universally shared heart’s desire. And people who say otherwise are either jaded or hardened or completely closed off to love that they have just written it off. So to me, the people claiming to be in union with a twin flame have gotten the concepts confused because a twin bond is just qualitatively different from the romantic bond of soulmates. I see soulmates (or rather primary soulmates) as the universal principle; “twin flames” are rare, the result of chance and/or a random energetic “accident”. Not better or higher, just different.
Absolutely beautiful and right down the point!!!!
Keelena just put into language information what I figured also out in myself. I was coming in fully feminine polarized and had this intense catalyst experiences, in retreats, playing through with a male counterpart where attraction was on all levels. But with none of them it would result in an actual romantic relationship. With all of them I was led to see that they are mySelf. Due to the density of illusion I simply needed to play it through again and again and now all is clear. I am fully anchored as mySelf and the love ….uiiiiiiii…is the love for All 😉 Thank you so much for sharing, highly needed for so many beings!
Recently the “thought” that twin flames are actually magnetism and electricity, the male and female of all of us coming together in UNION as ONE BEING rather than separated and working independently, which of course causes and continues the internal war. We are both these forces but our minds have separated them into male and female to keep us locked into division rather than UNITY. This happens the moment we are born into the physical realm when the mind becomes the operator than the singularity of the heart. The mind has no idea where it is when it wakes and sets up all kinds of defenses causing duality thinking. This also keeps us locked into looking outside ourselves for this Union of Twin Flames when the Union takes place within. Just my two cents! It keeps coming into my understanding, so I must accept it as true for myself. I will no longer seek outside of myself for anything but work on bringing unity within myself. We are both male and female forces and the “twin flame” we are seeking is none other than our inner forces uniting as ONE FORCE, the Christ Consciousness. Thank you for your article. I enjoyed it.
I would like to add that the Union of the forces of male and female energy, magnetism and electricity is the creation of self-love…it is the Holy Grail, the unconditional love we have all been seeking outside of ourselves but actually exists within. It is the greatest love we can give and the greatest love we can receive, and we are both the giver and the receiver. Namaste my friend, with gratitude for you.