When immersing oneself in the path of Self Love, practicing loving Self more through adversity, practicing letting go when things don’t go the way one wants them to, practicing letting go of the need to have a particular “format” to one’s life, one discovers that the Universal Flow is extremely more vast and knowledgeable than ones small self can ever be.
Having done that, then one succumbs to the Being of All that Is, in human form. This acts as a huge catalyst to bring forth all the desires and wants because one is in the flow, and in joy, and in appreciation, and in gratitude. That is the way it works. With no more need of worry, one can love more and more and more. And it returns.
~~ from Higher Self