In my recent video with Keleena Malnar about the twin flame phenomenon, we revealed concepts that Mel Brand identified in his own video released that day. And a two nights ago, I listened to Mel Brand’s lastest two part video, which he had let me know the concepts in his videos were very much in keeping with ours. After watching his videos, I was preparing for bed and could not sleep until I had written my reflection of these concepts. These concepts continually evolve and change. Here are some of my heart intuited conclusions:
The reason why two people who have experienced the bubble love phase together cannot stay together in that state indefinitely is that invariably the reality of the blocks each carries become obvious. At that point, it seems one begins to drop out first and that person has been termed the runner. But that person falls out of the bubble quicker because they have more blocks built up to love than the other. Regardless, once one drops out, it triggers the other to drop out of the higher vibrations as well because they now learn they in fact also have blocks built up to love. Regardless, this drop in vibration usually means the two are no longer a vibrational match.
No matter how it happens, both MUST drop out of the bubble phase to address their own blocks. And, you cannot be in a bubble love state of being with someone who is not a vibrational match to you. That is why two people who have experienced the bubble love phase cannot stay together in that state indefinitely. And depending upon the level of work needing to be done by each individual in that bubble love phase, there is very little chance they will remain at the same level once they “drop out” of it. The amount of clearing work that someone has to do to come into wholeness is going to be different in every case. In some situations, these two individuals can help each other shift into wholeness by triggering each other until each can clear and drop all obstacles built within which blocks to true inner love. More often than not, the two simply separate because the vibrations are no longer a match and it’s painful to fall out of that bubble for both.
No matter what the case, each has the opportunity at this point to set out on a path of self-discovery to begin to become at one with themselves. It is not always the case that both people DO become at one with themselves at that point in time. But let’s talk about that path for a moment. A Course in Miracles calls this process Atonement, or At-One-Ment. Only when both become whole, or at one with themselves, and have cleared all their own obstacles to love, can they achieve that incredible 5th dimensional and higher sacred partnership with a person that is a complete vibrational match.
What has happened in the twin flame community is a lot of those who have been affected by the bubble phase love have set their sights on the person with whom they had this original connection. This is logical since there is so much information out there that talks about twin flames being with only ONE person. Even Mel’s earlier videos misinform because at the time of their recording, he was one of the original twin flame couples coming in for this phase of work and could see it no differently. Of course, the evolution of any concepts helped him arrive at new conclusions. And now he understands differently. But the point is that most everyone in this community believes it can only be one person. And unless this definition changes and evolves, people will continue to get stuck!
What happens when those who have experienced this bubble love phase move onto the path of self-love and discovery? They do the work of actively letting go of old programs in order to become more and more at one with self. More in wholeness. More in their divine truth. Through the process of acceptance, forgiving and letting go, they peel away the layers that have kept them asleep to their own being.
Unfortunately, without the piece of truth Mel just uncovered (which resonates with me 1000%), those who have begun to master their own programs and karmic relationships will sit and pine, waiting for this other original person to catch up. When in fact, there is no guarantee that they even climbed aboard the At-One-Ment Train. So you have learned who you are, stand in your highest divine truth, love who you are and being at peace with your Being. Sadly, there is no guarantees that the other person who you shared that with will ever do that. IF there is soul agreement that the other person, it is always possible and even highly likely they will do their own work and they will “catch up,” if you will. Yes, it would then be possible to achieve another permanent bubble phase connection to which both could commit for this lifetime. This is absolutely possible.
But it left me with one conclusion only. As much as we don’t want to let go of the idea that the original partner is the one with whom we will achieve this bubble phase with, it just doesn’t makes sense that it is the ONLY person. If that person never does the work to come into wholeness, are you willing to concede to never experiencing that 5th dimensional bubble phase again with another? If that person does not move back into the same vibrational frequency with you, will you live without the highest vibration of love while here? If they decide they do not wish to stand in truth and instead hold onto their templated relationships because they are convinced that it is the right thing to do, does that mean that you must be alone? That never sounded right to me.
If you are coming into Wholeness, becoming at one with yourself and are in your true divine essence, you become the bubble phase yourself. That is what is happening to ME! I am beginning to hold a steady bubble love vibration that is a beacon. And, it is drawing to me all kinds of love in all kinds of ways! Why would that beacon not draw to me like vibrations? Of course it would. Like attracts like. So therefore, the path I have moved along has returned me to my OWN bubble phase. And now I will easily at the right time be able to draw to me a partner who is in his OWN bubble phase. And I will once again experience the high vibration levels of love that I experienced originally. It is inevitable.
Just something to go inside and think about. Isn’t it the bubble love connection we experienced that we all want? We want to be in the state of vibration of our divine being. Our Highest Self. The love like no other…the one that makes your heart burst. That ultimate connection as a whole being? That is what the twins that came before now delivered to all. Once you achieve that with yourself, you will have it with another if that is what you choose. It cannot be otherwise.
Good work those of you who are coming into Wholeness and standing in your truth! I am so inspired by all of you around me. I love you very much. Namaste.
Written with Love and Light by Debbie Saffer DuBois
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One Comment on “Twin Flame “Bubble Love””
Hi, thank you for your article & video! They were just what I needed to hear tonight. I recently decided–about 2 months ago–to let go of my original TF and see if I could manifest a new one. And I did! And, its soooo much better than my original one. I am still struggling a little bit with minor triggers, but overcoming those faster and faster, which is allowing my new TF to continue to show up in my life. He’s also not a runner either. We’re both at the same place. Anyway, your information is absolutely correct and I wonder why other TF coaches/guides aren’t in the know the way you are. Thank you again for this valuable information! Connie