“My Beloved is a perfect reflection of Who I Am and whom I have always been”

When one meets the beloved that relights their heart’s flame, the temptation is to place the splendor on the other person. To see how wonderful and perfect they are because they know just what to say at the right time, they love you in a way that you have been waiting to be loved your whole life. They give of their heart to you the way you give of your heart to them. They speak lovely words or sending loving thoughts in return for those you feel open to express yourself. In other words, they mirror your open heart. They send out beacons of love and light for you and it feels amazing! There is nothing that feels better in the whole world to someone who has “given up hope” that love like that exists on the planet.

It is extremely important to remember that this point, that the beloved that has shown up is doing so in perfect reflection of Who You Are. Not who you can be, but who you are right then. That means that all those qualities are a reflection of YOU. And in order to experience that, you are embodying your Highest Self. In other words, you ARE your highest self THEN. The energy of that being presents itself only when you are reflecting that yourself. So in essence you fall in love with yourself, the moment you fall in love with that other being.

Most people at this point will put the other person on a pedestal, giving them all the credit for being the perfect person for them. How lovely the other person is, how wise, how strong, how beautiful, how giving, how romantic, etc. Once this happens, they will have given away their power to their beloved. When you give your power away to another person, you will most definitely lower their vibration just as surely as if you wrapped your arms around them to stay afloat in deep water. For they cannot possibly live up to the image you have created for them in their humanity for the long haul. Make no mistakes, they will feel the pressure to try to fulfill that because it feels so intoxicating to be the hero that someone has longed for their whole lives. But, inevitably the result will be a lowering of their vibration as they try to be that hero. For they do not usually know that they are all those things. They are simply reflecting back to you what you are. The fear that you will see their perceived “less than perfect self” tends to cause a downward spiral in vibration.

Once you have given your power to another person, you then become attached to them for your happiness. Unless they continue to demonstrate all those amazing qualities to you, you will not feel okay. In the beginning, the person is always there for you in loving embrace. You come to expect the unconditional floating kind of love they have expressed as being validation of your worth even if you do not realize it. But, if for any reason that person is unable to continue that expression in just such a way, then you will fall in vibration yourself because you will feel that the reason is because of you. This is what happens when you unknowingly attached yourself to another.

If you were to do one thing differently, it would make all the difference. When you meet that sacred beloved partner, if you were to recognize that person as the perfect reflection of you and stay there, you would enable both people to stay in their highest vibration. It is TRUTH. The other person who you see as being all those amazing things IS that and more. But will only continue to reflect what you are back to you. Acknowledge this truth. It is only our belief in separation that causes us to put those qualities outside ourselves on the other person. If you stay in your knowing that it is YOUR worthiness that has drawn that reflection to you, you will keep the inner love front and center, never giving away your personal power in the first place. This will enable you to keep things loose and flowing and in highest vibrational frequencies.

It takes a rare person who is awake enough and aware enough to realize they are all those things when they have met their beloved. But let this be the call to any of you now who have just met or are getting ready to meet an amazing 5D loving sacred partner. Remember these words: “My beloved is a perfect reflection of Who I Am already in all ways. I love myself eternally.” This will help you maintain the vibration necessary to keep the union in a sacred state of being each time you are tempted to tell the world just how amazing this other person is.

And finally, I have been shown that the degree to which you attach your value to the other person is the degree to which you must experience separation from them to learn the lessons you need to learn. And you will not experience reunion with them unless those lessons are learned. For your union was of highest vibration to start with and you cannot take attachment into the higher dimensions as its vibration cannot go with you. This lesson will help you transit to higher dimension much faster and easier. And so it is <3

~Written with love by Debbie Saffer DuBois
True Sacred Union
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